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With my dear husband starting a new job comes a few new "responsibilities" for him and myself as well.  Being a part of a boarding school will consume you, yes we were warned, but I am realizing it much quicker than I thought I would!  I am soo happy that we are where we are though!  I cannot thank God enough for this opportunity.  I MISS *HIM* THOUGH.       Being a senior class sponsor, orchestra and choir director there will be many trips this year, not including all the other "responsibilities" he now has.  This weekend started the madness.  He left this morning to a place with the senior class that no one knows where they went, and to top it off...he has no cell phone reception or electricity.  It was storming this morning when they left, so hopefully they won't be rained on the whole time.       I had hopes and plans to go along on this first trip, but after finding out that we wouldn't be able to take Gabriel, and with Henry coming home..I had to stay back and be "responsible" for them.  I must say, I sort of threw a little fit about not being able to go...nothing serious or too crazy, but I was just bummed.  The one thing about moving somewhere completely new  is not having old friends around to call up and hang out with.  I have just been cleaning and playing with my "responsibilities" today. HAHA!  I will say one thing, I am thankful I don't have children at this point in my life, Henry and Gabriel are ENOUGH! :)  I have never been one for taking on "extra" "responsibilities", I find it difficult to add unnecessary stress into my life. That may sound selfish, but I think it's very thoughtful :).  Imagine if I said yes to things I couldn't find time for, or if I had a baby just because I liked the idea of being able to call it mine.  What a mess my little world would be in.       Right now, I am happy with life.  I do sometimes wish animals, Gabriel, could take care of himself, but...that wasn't part of his resume. :P  Henry, I am not too worried about..he is a cat, and they pretty much do what they want..I LOVE THAT!!  :)   Aaaaahhhhh...the "Responsibilities" in life....

Looking forward to my partner returning home safe and sound.



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