que sera sera

The heartache I have had after hearing about a dear friend who has had an abortion is just unimaginable. It ripped me open....and I thought hearing about a miscarriage/still birth was rough.  This person is already a mother.  How can it be that she and her husband could ever make such a decision.  I let it sink in, trying not to judge...but failing at first.  Trying not to have harsh feelings, but it took me a while to get past them.  I started reading blogs about abortion.  More heart break.  One career driven mother said she felt empowered by the abortion.  How absolutely unbelievable.  Feeling empowered by the act of killing your own child!?! This sounded like pure evil.  Again trying not to judge, but wow!  There is no way of justifying that.  How can someone who is ALREADY a mother feel even remotely at peace about doing such a thing?  Maybe sometimes she doesn't?.?.  How can that be an option when you are a grow...